Relax

Seriously, just relax. Take a deep breath. Feel better? When you’re out in the field trying to pickup, you need to relax. If a girl is talking to you and in the back of your head you keep saying “Don’t screw this up! Don’t screw this up!” Guess what? You’re going to screw this up because you’re to busy listening to your inner voice instead of the girl. If you play it too safe, she could get bored “Where do you go to school? Where do you work? Do you like it?” Yawn. Don’t be afraid to ask questions that might turn her off. Pretend to be a reporter getting to the bottom of the story. If you blow it, no big deal. You live. You learn. You move on. No one has ever died from rejection. And if you do get rejected, chances are it’s not being filmed so it won’t end up on YouTube.